ql cheat my feelings, she never blog. haha.. so i'm here to blog so that hopefully, she can be more inspired!

met evan that silly girl today. she's been thinking too much, but i believe all girls have this disturbing thought from time to time. i dont know how come we seem to be engineered this way, but at some point in a relationship, especially when feeling stressed or after a quarrel, we will wonder if we still love the guy. even if at the end of the day, the answer is yes, we will still wonder about it for at least half a day.haha kinda funny ya? but such is the stuff that we think about. and we will continue thinking about such stuff, until we force ourselves till we go crazy, on the verge of breakdown, or we just repeatedly assure ourselves that the love is still there.

and when this disturbing thought pops up, it's really kinda hard to talk to anybody about it. but talking to friends helps! their evaluation of the problem is very much valuable, and somehow talking just calms one down.

of course, the guy's reaction is very important la.. but i think if the guy is in a damn unlucky position. dismiss the girl's fears will make the girl think that you not taking her seriously. keeping quiet will make her feel even more insecure. talking it out will stress her. haha tough luck for the guy. he just has to go with his guts. wahaha but of course, the guy may never know, since they are after all, guys. =p